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Generally, there are two types of narcissists: the somatic narcissist (hyperactive sexually) and the cerebral narcissist (hypoactive sexually).The somatic narcissist gains his ‘narcissistic supply’ from other people’s reactions to his body via sexual conquests, bodybuilding, athletic abilities, competence in outdoor activities, or sometimes simply preening.He uses sex to conquer and secure new sources of narcissistic supply.For the narcissist, sex is a mechanical act, devoid of intimacy and commitment.
They are master manipulators and know how to fake intimacy; but when their partner no longer meets their “fix” for narcissistic supply, they will drop them and abandon them with no remorse.
There are many narcissists who are charming and seductive, graced with a worldly manner, yet who cannot not keep his or her hands off other women or men.
Men and women with narcissism seek sexual gratification as a way of getting attention and narcissistic supply – they may say they are addicted to sex, but it is the attention and control they crave. Seducing someone into having sex is a form of control.
The more difficult the target is, the more power and control they feel.
Most adults can brush off the behaviors of a narcissist, but children are more vulnerable.
In his mind, there is a clear distinction between the “woman of his life” (a saint) and the w****s that he is having sex with.